Quote of the Day: Clementine Ford Calls Out Hollywood's Excusing Of Domestic Abuse

Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse

Chris Brown scowling

We all know what Chris Brown did. His brutal beating of then-girlfriend Rihanna has made a permanent mark on his career. On Twitter, it's easy to see how divisive the situation has gotten. Most people are disgusted with Brown, and often tweet taunts to him about his violent temper. His devoted fans, known as "Team Breezy," blame Rihanna for starting the altercation, and even worse, claim that it would be worth enduring physical assault in order to be Brown's girlfriend. Brown was unrepentant and still has an explosive temper. And yet he won Grammys, and was allowed to perform twice at this year's ceremony. It's obvious that, in Hollywood, domestic abuse isn't that big a deal. Chris Brown's career continued, and even flourished after the incident. And other domestic abusers continue to get work in Hollywood too. Mel Gibson. Michael Fassbender. Gary Oldman. Tommy Lee. Josh Brolin. I bet you didn't even know some of these men are abusers, and these are just a few examples.

This leads to my quote of the day, which has been making the rounds on Tumblr this week. This is excerpted from Clementine Ford's excellent article, Chris Brown isn't the only one:

And then there’s Charlie Sheen. Sheen’s sordid history includes shooting Kelly Preston with a .22 calibre pistol, throwing chairs at his then wife Denise Richards, being sued by a UCLA student for allegedly hitting her in the head after she refused to have sex with him, allegedly strangling at least two of his former girlfriends and just generally being a god-awful d-ckmonger. Yet none of that mattered to Chuck Lorre and the other people making squillions of dollars from the long running Two and a Half Men, a televisual fart that didn’t just succeed in offending the tastes of thinking people everywhere but also legitimised Sheen as some kind of raffish japester. In the end, Sheen was fired not because he’s a disgusting human being with a gross history of violence against women but because he had a drug problem and was publicly rude to his boss.

Charlie Sheen's meltdown didn't ruin his career. It fueled it. "Winning" and "Tiger Blood" became memes, his solo shows sold out, his Twitter feed got millions of followers within days. And now he'll be getting another sitcom, Anger Management, which is apparently already breaking ratings records. It begs the question - how much worse can a person get before Hollywood finally gives up on them? Why are we predicting the ruin of Kristen Stewart's career for a cheating scandal, when Charlie Sheen gets new opportunities after repeatedly committing attempted murder?

Unfortunately, I think we all know the answer.


Myrna Waldron is a feminist writer/blogger with a particular emphasis on all things nerdy. She lives in Toronto and has studied English and Film at York University. Myrna has a particular interest in the animation medium, having written extensively on American, Canadian and Japanese animation. She also has a passion for Sci-Fi & Fantasy literature, pop culture literature such as cartoons/comics, and the gaming subculture. She maintains a personal collection of blog posts, rants, essays and musings at The Soapboxing Geek, and tweets with reckless pottymouthed abandon at @SoapboxingGeek.